So I’m writing a play based on actual interaction between me on okcupid/tinder. So i made these stupid accounts. I had recently met a guy that seemed very normal and was very attracted to. We started talking and all he talked about was sex so I picked up the cues fast. Fuck buddy is what this was going to be if it had panned out. Awesome, all I need right now.
He was going to meet me at a club tonight and neither of us ended up going. He was down town, was going to meet me in the park but I told him ‘you’re not coming back to my place the first night I meet you, you should know this .’ And he flipped and stop talking to me.
Ok I know it’s partially my fault for letting the guy assume this due to the nature of our possible relationship, but I am NOT the person to fuck a guy the night I meet him. Especially when meeting online. Maybe that’s just me. Part of me wishes I could be that girl, but most of me is glad that I am not as my entire body is still intact due to the fact that I am not that girl .
But this behavior brings up even more issues. Guys feel that if we won’t have sex with them the first night, we aren’t worth it since we won’t fuck them at all. Which in reality it’s the exact opposite. If you respect a woman’s wishes the first night you meet, she’s gonna be soooo much more attracted to you and want to fuck you immediately next time you meet. WHY DO DUDES NOT UNDERSTAND THIS?!?!? Just be patient and respectful and you’ll get laid. Why is that such a hard system to comprehend?!?!